I do need to do this. I know he has the problem. I truly believe he will regret the path he has chosen. I think he knows that, but for whatever reason he is self destructing.
I don't think the lawyer friend of mine even knew I was married. I didn't meet him until after I moved back and I just never mentioned because at the time H lived in TX and had filed. When he came back, I don't know why I didn't mention...but I didn't. Anyway, he sounded kind of shocked when I told him I needed a D, and I felt kind of embarassed.
Now I wish I had called someone I didn't know. This won't be hard finacially speaking. All of our posessions are already split, our savings accounts and bank accounts are split. We have the house together but I pay for all of that and it is for sale so I don't know how that will work. We don't have any equity in it, it will probably cost me when it sells, but H doesn't have the money to cover any of it. The car is in both our names. He won't be able to get it in his name only and I am afraid it won't sell (SUV...BAD gas mileage). I can afford to take it, but it would be stretching myself to thin and I REALLY don't want it so I am not sure what to do about that.
Things just went from one extreme to the other so fast.
