I have been very intimate with my husband and I don't plan to stop. It is a connection and afterwards he tells me how confused he is. I'll take being the one to confuse him. The bedroom has never been our problem area and if it remains good, then it is a connection to him.
His birthday was special in the morning. H had a little surprise from me. Big hug and kiss afterward and the "I'm just so confused right now." He says he loves me and always will, just unhappy and has to decide if how we live is how he wants to live.
I say if the opportunity arises (no pun intended) that you take advantage of it. It is NEVER just sex!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.