I agree with hope4us. Coming from someone that cheated on her H, who is the type of girl who would have NEVER done that, putting yourself in situations like that is not a good idea. That being said, I do understand your wife's need to go out and feel beautiful with other girls. If you didn't say anything about your marriage being a little rocky I might say to not worry about it too much. Do you go on "guy trips", and if so, does she worry about that? (trips to Las Vegas with buddies, etc?)