- "What I hope to accomplish is to simply let you know what's going on. What you do with it is up to you, and if you don't want to hear from me any further after today, I will respect your privacy and your wishes. I just know if the situation were reversed, I would want to know."
She can know you are who you say you are by TALKING to you.
Her second question, to me, says that she either caught -- or OM copped to -- the affair at some point, but she's been led to believe that it's over "now." She sounds concerned not in hearing about an affair for the first time, but in hearing that there might be something RECENT going on.
Puppy, she knows something has been going on but said all she has been told is that they are "old friends".
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Have you talked to friends up north to find out if your wife stayed there both nights?
No, have not yet done that. My plan was to ask OMW whether OM was away last week at all. The friends are very good friends and I do not want to get them dragged in the middle of a pi$$ing match if there is no need. If there is a need, gloves are off.
On the other matter (WW wanting to again leave, call it quits, D, etc), am I handling it ok in your view? Suggestions? Not sure what I am doing is showing much "fight"... or is it?
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
