C is good for some people, and not so for others. It depends on the C, and whether or not you can handle the situation on your own.
I saw a C for two years after my ex and I split, and although she did help identify some key issues that were effecting my life. About 2 months ago, I started seeing another one, and she is great. But I wanted to see a counselor because I felt I was not handling the situation.
The choice to see a C is an individual choice, and if it is something you are not comfortable with, then there is no point in doing it. From what I have read on your board, you seem to be handling the sitch really well, DBing and doing 180's that are showing promise.
(((Julia)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
