Wed morning and not much new in the LIS house. Have not actually spoken to OMW yet. She came back with a few questions before she would agree to speak to me: - what did I hope to accomplish by speaking to her - has there been anything recent she should know about - how can she be sure I am who I say I am (she is concerned the e-mails may be coming from WW - I mentioned a similar concern earlier).
- "What I hope to accomplish is to simply let you know what's going on. What you do with it is up to you, and if you don't want to hear from me any further after today, I will respect your privacy and your wishes. I just know if the situation were reversed, I would want to know."
She can know you are who you say you are by TALKING to you.
Her second question, to me, says that she either caught -- or OM copped to -- the affair at some point, but she's been led to believe that it's over "now." She sounds concerned not in hearing about an affair for the first time, but in hearing that there might be something RECENT going on.
Have you talked to friends up north to find out if your wife stayed there both nights?
