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I knew I FU after I said it.


You did not FU. Have you read Men are from Mars/women are from Venus?? You may want to read it. Women think different and speak a diffdernet language. The book would help you understand why I think she meant what she meant.

Don't panic based on my post and don't get down. Keep doing the 180's. I did not say don't shop. I said shop but reaasure her that you are doing it for you and your new job.

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I don't know, I keep telling her its for work but I do want her to notice me and it would be nice if she would say I look good. I compliment her all the time when she is wearing new clothes and look good. I guess its juse ego and needing her to notice me.


She is noticing. She's making comments to you about it. If she did not notice she would not say anything.

Don't expect her to compliment you.

We can stroke your ego here..

Don't get down, you handled it well. I'm just pointing things out to you. You're doing great, better than great IMO..

Now, put a smile on your face and get out there and make YOU better.