Hiya, 'Thro! Man, I know how you feel when the hurt just keeps coming. This may be too late, but always give yourself time to be mad and be selfish and have a self-pity mope. Just don't do anything to hurt anybody until you've exhausted those feelings. I know you already know that, and my guess is that's what you did. SOrry you had to be there for awhile...
Now, though, assuming you've completed a good healthy mope: MAN, you guys are doing great! heh, heh!
Hanging in there through this yuckymuck. She seems like she's really earnest in wanting to work on this stuff. That's nice. After you get done moping, things always look so much fresher, huh? Go back and read some of your upbeat posts about being done DBing! List three things you're happy about today! Congratulate yourself for handling all this crap so much better than you could have! No on is a saint, but there are better ways to handle things, and you're finding them. GOOD JOB!
