Flipper, I don't think you were bossy at all. It's obvious that you've been on both sides of the fence in this situation and that kind of insight is invaluable, especially to those like me who are floundering through life in a state of mass confusion!

Tonight is the first time H and I will be seeing each other in over 2 weeks. I finally convinced him that if we want to see if we really have a chance of making it, we actually have to spend some time together to see whether or not there is still something there. I'm hoping things go well and I walk away with at least a little clarity...


Me (WAW) 30
H (LBS) 31
T since 6/10/1994
M 8/8/98
No kids
S 3/10/08
D filed 6/9/08; put on hold 7/14/08
D finalized 10/13/08