Moving here with H and OW

[C_K]

Hi L

H is still hiding involvement with OW;

I am reasonably sure W is involved with someone but she keeps it hidden , I am not sure what is behind this , but I think its typical of the "not fully gone" WAS , thinking that they may be able to retain a lifeline back or it could be that they know it would hurt us and they are trying not to have that conflict.

I am sooo tired of my sitch...and find myself feeling like all the effort has been for naught.

I am with you on that one , but hopefully the effort has left you a better person in yourself. In fact i know it has.

This path causes my couple of good friends who know what's going on to be frustrated with me...they both think I should kick H to the curb.

I get this from most of my friends and my Mother .

Hang in there L , I think that we are both at that part of this journey thats going to need patience.

All the same you also need to be moving ahead with your life and finding ways of making it as fullfilling and enjoyable as you can.

Dave