I dont think raining compliments is good, but a tiny bit here and there would be good. Just start with some looks and see how those are received first. You don't have to follow what others say word for word. Some may not agree with my approach, but it works for my marriage. I am trying hard to follow what God has outlined in the Bible and I have found that I have hardly any regrets compared to when I listened to "everyone." Focus on your positives no matter how small.
7 Year Itch,
I would keep on. I did in my sitch and there was some interference but God sent that mountain back a LONG LONG LONG time ago! Praise The Lord! I think that our connection forced that other one to be incredibly week and break over and over and over. And like Ladybug said. I want to keep the marital bed pure. I no longer care what he says when its negative because actions speak louder than words. I am waiting for them then to match and hear "I love you." If you can detach yourself from the crazy stuff he may say then you will be ok. I love being able to show him I love him. My hubby has some other issues going on but I think he knows I will always be here for him and he wants that connection just as much as I do.
