Just resolved to have more faith and be sure that you are giving it to Him to take care of it instead of you trying to fix it. That is where it gets tough. Another thing I've learned about faith is this.....we would never need faith if we never had problems. How will our faith grow without the opportunity to use it? Faith is like muscles....it has to be used in order to get stronger.
Hey Sandi,
I think everything you said is very insightful and truthful. Your above statement really opened my eyes, I haven't looked at it that way. I have been so distant from God in the past up until recently that God probably is testing my faith and at the same time bringing me closer to him. Yes I have made mistakes in my marriage, but have admitted and take responsibility for them. Sometimes I ask myself "Can I pass God's test? Then I tell myself YES I can." I feel that when I pass his test, make the changes he is expecting of me, follow his commands, and when he gets through working in my W's life and heart, that is when my W will come home. My W is coming home, it is just a matter of when. Well when it happens I will let ya know...lol.
It is good to hear what you had to say in your last post, your knowledge really has to help your marriage and to have happiness too.
I think one thing is for sure, if you stand firm you can see what and where it will get your marriage/relationship!