Let it go Maryangela, you will never, ever, ever, never have any control or imput into your h's common sense.
He is going to do what he wants to do. You have to make peace with it. Just like H will have no control over what you do with your time with D.
Think of it this way, if you wanted to wear purple pajamas with big yellow dots and have your d wear the same, every time she was with you. Its your choice. H can do nothing about it. Even if he hated the color purple. He can't do a thing about it.
Your h's just like mine, common sense fell out of their heads a long time ago. They dropped it, and they will never find where they left it.
Let it go. Dont show him it bothers you. Move on from it.
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
