Throw things? Huh? I'm not pissed... I'm irritated. I find my H being very immature. I haven't spoken one word to him. Haven't even seen him, when I do 'speak' to him, it's through email and I'm very polite and very nice to him.
I don't understand where you got the idea I was throwing things or talking to him directly? I don't lose my cool like that. I just think that he is being very immature about how he's dealing how I need some items from the house because I'm leaving for a trip in a few weeks, and have very little time for these games he wants to pursue. I don't have the time for this email tag.
I simply came here to vent it off, because it is really really really childish and there is no way I would have ever done this to him. I would have never deflated his bike tires out of spite, and I'm talking literally a bicycle. It's his way of controlling the situation, because he feels out of control, and he knows it's out of control. I haven't said one word to him about anything other the fact of specific items I need (a list and where of find them) from the house.
I think it's absolutely childish behavior. I don't know what happened to the mature man I used to know... that's for sure.
Like I said, I'm not playing these games, he can sit and stew on it all he wants, and when comes to a rational conclusion, to be an adult, then we'll talk. Until then, I'm simply going to go about my daily business. I'm letting go.
