of course you guys are right. my dad predicted this. his ow has a 10 year old. what really kills me is that on the weekends since he's moved out and had her on the weekends I just found out that not only are they all together like a family, but she and the child sleep over! I know this now for a fact. imo, both she and h (esp. h) are so irresponsible and disgusting for doing this. he's only been gone for 2 freakin' months! where is his common sense???