xw called this morning to complain about my voicemail. we ended up getting into it and i kind of snapped, telling her that i only wanted to talk to her about the kids, i was tired of her lies and how they impacted my life and that it would stop. a story that she fabricated was brought up and she offered to call the dude involved, he got on the phone and she changed her story to closer to the truth and i was shocked, it was totally different than when she said something about it weeks ago. then after he got off the phone she was like there.... i said there what, that wasn't what you said, she called me a liar and hung up. then i got an email exchange for ya
her: Please do not speak to me unless it regards the children. Do not expect me to text message or talk on the phone when I am trying to drive with my children in the car. Please do not accuse me of lying when I am only reporting to you what I have been told. I do not talk about you. I have a life of my own that I converse with others about. I am again putting you on notice to not speak to me unless it is regards to my children. I am also putting it in writing as a notice to not offer (full name of xsts14) rides anymore or we will need to pursue a restraining order. There is no need to respond to this email, as it is a notice only.
me: Please do not speak to me unless it regards the children. Do not expect me to text message or talk on the phone when I am trying to drive with my children in the car. Please do not accuse me of lying when I am only reporting to you what I have been told. I do not talk about you. I have a life of my own that I converse with others about.
I am putting you on notice to not speak to me unless it is regards to my children. I am also putting it in writing as a notice to not speak to me or anyone else accusing me of sexually violating you while you were on ambien in 2005. Despite the fact that I have an attached copy of an email from May 5 2006 where I clearly express that the only time anything ever happened was the first time you took it years before, I gave you the benefit of the doubt that you actually believed that something happened in 2005. I now will be forced to think that anytime you bring it up it will to be maliciously hurt my character or to manipulate me into giving you your way and I will be forced to pursue legal action.
There is no need to respond to this email, as it is a notice only. (I attached said exchange, which I am sure you can find in my archives)
her: Despite what you may believe, I do not talk to people about that incident (other than best friend) because I find it to be sad and sick. I have not mentioned this incident to you since the huge discussion about it a few weeks ago...yet you decided that you wanted to bring it up again today. Remember...I have not brought it up, you have. Again, you need only talk to me about the children. I cannot stress that enough. Thank you, First an Last name
me: Again, I can only go on what I am told or what I see. Please keep the subject to the children. Thank you
so there it is, hopefully the end of this all thoughts, questions, comments?
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
