I started out on these boards in the "I'm thinking about leaving" catagory but have since left and wanted to start a new thread here. The link to my old thread is:
In a nutshell my husband and I have been married for a little over two years, together for almost 6. We are both very young and my husband has a lot of growing up to do. He decided that he no longer wants to be married because he wants to "live his own life." I did everything I could to keep things together but two days ago I moved out because if I didn't leave he was going to and I could not afford to stay at our place by myself. Now I am back home with my parents while I work on finding a new place to live. He is living in our house but is planning to move in with some friends in the next month (he already gave 30 days notice to our landlord.) It seems like he is pretty serious about the separation but there are a lot of times where I think he is scared.
Anyways it has been two days now with no contact. I miss him and wonder what he is up to. My current approach is to "go dark" and leave him alone and let him have his space. I am working on GAL and trying not to think about him. I just wish he would call. I guess I need encouragment to keep my resolve. Any advice or imput for you guys who either have been there or are in the middle of this crazy "separation life" would be wonderful!
