Calystra, I understand what you mean about digging up the past, the bb being a downer, etc. Even though I NEED everyone's help, even I am careful about which posts I read, because some send me into a major dive.
But, as someone you have been trying to help, let me just say that I really appreciate you and your Husband taking the time to try to help out. It is so inspiring to read the posts the two of you put on the bb. Thank you so much. I wish my sitch could make you smile, inspire you, say "look what we did" and hopefully someday, it will. We will all understand if you can't visit as much, or at all, but know that we understand the sacrifice you are making when you come here. You have to know how appreciated you are, people are clamouring to talk to you.
So, from the bottom of my severely bruised heart, thank you.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
