From my experience and many others here, sex is often followed with "this doesn't change anything" or something along those lines. It's a very individual thing to decide to have sex or not. MY take is on keeping the connection. It's not emotional for him? He may SAY that, but we are also told to believe NOTHING that they say...and I'll choose that. I also think that great sex may keep him out of the arms of another woman. I KNOW there's a "friend", but I've got him in bed, and I'm not willing to hand that over to someone else. So, I make sure to keep it good, experiment some, bring out the toys, whatever I know will keep him thinking about me in the meantime.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
