Guess I wasn't clear....jumping from D17 to my ex's trip. I wanted D17 to spend a night or two with her dad so I asked him via email (he has given me his schedule so I asked for 2 nights when he wasn't working). Instead of saying that would be fine he tells me he's going out of state to visit a friend. I knew he wasn't taking D17 out of state.....I just don't know if he's taking his gf to meet all of our old friends (where we used to live). That is the part that makes me so jealous! I WISH he had taken D17!!! She has been anxious to get back there to see her cousins. Oh well. D17 and I were always low priorities.