Hi T!

Originally Posted By: transformer
I am so grateful for how this crisis has given me an opportunity to grow. I look at where I was a year ago and I like myself so much more now. I wish I could have learned these lessons without losing the man I loved, but I am so glad to be learning!!!


I totally agree, thats just how I feel and it is cool isnt it? I said to my BF tonight that I could take my Dad out for a pint for the first time in 20 years and not feel nervous, as my nevousness in crowded places has all evaporated since he left. So in that respect, he has done me a favour and I am completely cognitive of it. You DO sound good, totally stronger than a few months ago. Its lovely to hear!

((((((T!!!!)))))
Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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