Not worried about the snoring thing. I learned a long time ago to let her fall asleep first. She sleeps like a log, so it hasn't been an issue for years. I mean she wouldn't hear a dump truck drive through a nitroglycerin plant(tell me what that is from). Lately, because she has gained weight, she now snores and I have to move her to her side.
But a negative is still a negative. Especially in a fogged mind. I'm not letting it bug me. I have a couple months to let her keep counting positives.
I am only slightly optimistic. I still have the mind set of her moving out. That is what keeps me clear.
By focusing on me. I don't plan on kissing her a**. Just doing what I have BEEN doing, but cutting out negatives.
I plan on taking care of myself. I have to. I have to take care of her too. I told her and S14 that I am a strong person, and I well deal with whatever God places in my hands.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."