There is always some good thought-provoking stuff over here.
I've been thinking tons on this reassurance things, as I'm so stuck in that mode. But before bomb, did you seek it in the same manner as you do now, or was it just assumed?
What I'm thinking is are we asking for something that is so different from what we ever wanted/needed/demanded before that it is not in their genetic make-up to do this and what we want is a fictional hollywood leading man?
I like the positive reinforcement, that idea has been popping up on my thread, and I think I'm going to go at it full force and see what happens.
