Hi Sage, It's me again. I still haven't started a thread under my name. However, I wanted to post you a message. I read my Horoscope. It told me to "You can't get it right unless your brave enough to risk getting it wrong. You must rediscover the desire to be adventurous. ..... Yet the opportunity before you now is one which deserves to be bravely seized. This weekend's new moon represents one occasion when impulsivenless and courage work firmly in your favour."

Well, I did get brave on the car.

H wrote at 7:45am: "I have folks that have a sincere interest in buying the corvette. Unless there are huge objections, I thik it's time to sell as it hasn't been driven in 2 months. Are you keeping it or do I continue to make loan and insurance payments on a car that isn't driven?"

I reponded at 2:14pm: "You have made a valid and solid point for selling the corvette. I'm not ready to sell at this time. However, I will re-evaluate this decision if the car does not get driven in the future."

I hope that I was polite without being defensive. I also wanted to acknowledge the valid issue. I was afraid to give reasons because of sounding defensive.

Sage, I'm onto chapter 3 of DR. I've started my list. When I start my thread, I will post my obstacles for a beginners mind. And some goals that I want.

Have a good weekend. I will send you and e-mail Monday. Remember the positives each day with your H. And remember to voice positive reinforcement to your H on things he does well. Topaz. I Believe in Forever