Originally Posted By: Sugar and Spice
Also, H has asked me more than once, "are you sleeping with me tonight?" AS IF.... So how do I politely decline without being too hurtful? Or do I?


Is he asking you to sleep in the same bed, or sleep with him without actually sleeping?

I don't think I could do 'it' unless I was 100% certain he and the troll were not doing it. Especially after the STD scare.

Sugar, Dar is correct, you are a very good friend to your husband in addition to be a wonderful, caring, loving wife and mother.

Hey Dar, are you in our alternate universe (fb)? I had a dream about a friend request, or was it real? =)

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence