He is undecided at this point. But that is better than where he was. You should talk to Yoyowife about her experience with her husband as it sounds very similar to yours. Lots of similarities, especially the fixation on the house being super clean. (Her husband still has not let go of that one.) But her husband stayed ambivalent for about a year, going back and forth. In between his visits she went dark every time and waited for him to come back. Slowly he came back more and more. Of course, her husband's divorce case was thrown out of court, because in Arkansas you need grounds for divorce. And apparently a messy house is not grounds. So the only one who could file for divorce was Yoyo. Apparently infidelity and abandonment are grounds. Where's the justice?
