H complains.

House is too dark.

House is always a wreck.

We never have people over b/c it's a wreck.

I remind him it's a wreck b/c of both of us.

H says he never made it a priority b/c he thought I didn't want people over.

Tell H I thought I expressed MANY months back how I'd like to have people over more often. WANTED that.

*I* am the only one trying to improve all of the above complaints. Can I get some input? Assistance?

No.

Complain, complain, excuse.

I am just going to do what I want with my house, and then H can like it or not. *At least* ***I*** will like it.

He just wants to complain. About everything and nothing.

Grrrr.

Not a big M crisis, just something that is really, really, really annoying.

And I will come back and talk to H about it once I'm calm. 48-hour rule and all that.

But right now I sorta want to kick him in his whiny man cookies.

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!