I don't know how to do that quoting thing but you said
"I know she feels outnumbered. I just think that she turns it into something it isn't, uses it as an excuse."
Ok, I'm going to feel the need to apologise profusely but that is, IMHO, quite a harsh statement. If those are her feelings then they are valid to her as she is feeling them... it may be in your eyes an excuse but it might not be to her. Maybe you are being a little quick to dismiss?
God, I'm really not good at being even slightly contraversial/ putting my head above the parapit. Sorry if I offended, oh god now i'm apologising, sorry... :-)
