"....said he would stand in for H at the wedding if I wanted him to. "

Iasked first....
Take it easy Kris, I know that is easier said that done but like in the beginning ya can't worry about the things you have no control over.

I am sooo trying to look the other way right now in my sitch. I don't want to check the phone log, I don’t want to let W know that the other day when I was looking through papers to fix the garage door I found all the "investigation" paperwork I did when I first found out. I know more about the OM than his mother. I put the papers back.
YES to be spiteful if things don't work out the OM is not going to know what hit him.....Kind of the “I know what you did last summer"....
Anyway today is a good day so far for me ...

Hang in there and feel free to e-mail me if ya have my e-mail

H / Dr LOve

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know