You're not stupid either. You're a wonderful, caring, loving wife.
Ummmm...is that code for moron?
Thanks Dar, its very nice of you to say, but there are days where I don't feel any of the above. I'm going to see if he is serious about having his name taken off of the house and LS. I think for me, that is the very best option. It protects me and the kids, the house is mine and neither one of them can touch it and therefore, the $40,000.00+ hes blown gambling can be recouped by me in equity.
I'm spending the night at MIL's house tonight because she is having surgery in the am and someone needs to drive her/be with her...even though I've been around for 20yrs, why does it seem odd that it is me doing this and not one of her children? Also, H has asked me more than once, "are you sleeping with me tonight?" AS IF.... So how do I politely decline without being too hurtful? Or do I?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
