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The Moment I let go and loved him from the best place in me is the moment the ball started moving and this started to change. I just know it. I am still working on me and working on knowing I am worth it and he LOVES me he really does.

For all you men out there with ~LD Wives.
She really underneath it all loves you it is just hard to get out from under all the stuff... keep searching for her. And you will find her by loving her from that pure place in your heart... not from the place that resents her for not giving you sex.

There can be so many things that make her feel like her " sex" isnt special at all , if she only knew the gift it was she would surely try to share.
You want her to give the best of her are you really deep down really giving the best of you?

All you can do is be the best you and then if it is meant to be everything else will fall into place.
It takes alot of falling flat on your face and getting real humble but it can be done.
Take action, find solutions and love from the best place in you .... the results are truly amazing.


Ali, reading your posts have made me realize that all these years that I blamed my wife, it was me that was to blame. At the time in our life when she needed me most (after the birth of our child) I turned away from her. Instead of being the best father and husband I could be, I turned into the worst jaskass possible. Yes I stayed, but my approach to the marriage became half-assed and I let her down.

I'm am really searhing to find the best in me to give to her now, it seems to be working too. \:\) I hope that by my example she will find the best in her as well. I am hoping that someday, maybe we can get to the point where you are now too.

Cinco