Originally Posted By: Piglet2
The bad thing about people who manipulate.. they're pretty good at trying different things until they get the result they want. Be prepared for him to do or say anything at this point. Your H likes to get his way and if things aren't happening the way he wants, it will be you he tries to manipulate to fix it. Fortunately, you've seen the light and are too smart to fall for it.


Sheila- You hit the nail on the head as far as my fear goes. That he'll manipulate me into doing something I don't want to do. I don't feel as strong as you give me credit for. I'm seeing what he's doing, but I fear one thing he'll do is use D4 in some way. Like telling me that I'M the one hurting D4 for letting things end. Something like that.


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day