For him, his love language is Act of Service (lots and lots of acts of service ) He has told me that he feels loved when the house is clean, dinner is cooked, etc.... It makes him feel "taken care of." So, those are the ways I can take care of him.
For me, I'd like him to take care of me by mowing the lawn! His version of taking care of me (mentioned several times) is by moving to TN so I don't have to work. I'd like for him to spend some time with the kids without me. It would give me a much needed guilt-free break.
On a side note, at the police officers picnic, they were raffling off a bunch of things. H bought 25 tickets so I helped him fill them out. While I was filling them out I said, "You realize that if you get one of these restaurant gift certs you have to take me." He replied "Yea right." Anyways he won a restaurant gift cert to a new upscale place in town. He gave it to me and said, "hang on to this." I thought that was nice. Our anniversary is next week and I'm thinking we could use that?
He also asked what the plans are for 4th of July.
Should I mention our anniversary? Should I wait to see if he mentions it? It's not really a HAPPY anniversary after all...
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
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