I, too, thought you were doing this all along. But I must add that for a time I wasn't doing it...then realized I was posting all of my joy about what CJ was doing HERE, but not really consistently verbalizing it to HIM in the moment.
When we're not used to doing that, it can feel a bit awkward at first...(and then of course there's the little bit of entitlement we feel that says...but he SHOULD be doing XY and Z, why should I make a big deal out of it?...Why? So he'll know you appreciate it and KEEP doing it!) but then it gets easier and becomes second nature.
For an example...read my next post on my thread about CJ's latest dream he shared with me (forgot to mention it there! ).
DO it Sage, it will go a long way toward showing your H how much he IS doing that pleases you.
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