I think you responded really well, I think she has probably gained more respect for you that way. I know that before my h left I used to test him with demands to see how far I could push him and I actually wanted him to say no to me as a sign that he loved me. I know that might seem really strange as actually he was agreeing to my demands to keep me happy when it was actually having the opposite effect on me. There is no logic there I know but that was how I felt. Anyways, sounds like you did good!
