It is a weird feeling.

Knowing that the wife has to stay at home, for now. I was really ready for her to move out. Is it really a sign to us or just complete coincidence? Am I being given a reprieve? Did the Govenor call? Was it for me or was it for her? Am I being given another shot to keep fighting for her.

I thought that it was a good sign for us to talk about what she considers positives and negatives towards me. Her saying that recently, more positives.

Two more months to build on them. Make some more new ones.

Last night went well enough. Picked her up from work. I tried to initiate conversation, but she didn't talk much. She seemed to be in a funky mood. Again, I know she is upset that she is not able to drive right now. I tell her that I had a great day. I also know she is tired. We went to bed late the night before and did a lot of work outside. It was very hot, too. She also told me that I kept her up with my snoring.

Uh oh. A negative. Oh well.

Dinner and a movie with D6. D11 watched her shows on tv in our room. Roomie and I both fell asleep during the movie. Up and get to bed.

This morning, she is up early. D6 woke her up because she had and accident about an hour before we were to wake up.

I am shaving. She is straightening her hair and she asks me if she missed any spots. I am checking out her hair and telling her where she missed. We are talking. I make us lunch. Nephew gets up and needs a ride. He and the friend have had a falling out and apperantly kicked him out last night after they got home, so he is out now. Nephew also tells us that he is back with his on again off again girlfriend. We like her a lot and she is good for him, but he is just like his aunt. Stubborn. He has finally admitted that he pushed her away, was ugly to her, and feels bad about it. He admits that she has always been there for him and stood by him. Why would he treat the one that loves him so much?

Roomie tells him to be careful how he talks to her and to take care of her. Things we say, we may not really mean and it hurts the ones we really care about. Sometimes, we get a chance to get them back.

Hmm. I think I have her really thinking. Not going to bet everything on it, though it was a good sign.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."