How do I answer WW when she asks why I contacted OMW?
I was thinking of something along the lines that the deception is not fair to either family and if she was fully in the know, she would have told me. (seems kind of lame though)
"Because I wanted to hear the TRUTH, and that's been in short supply around here lately."
Alternate:
"I am doing what I feel I need to do to protect myself, and to try to save my marriage and my family." (If she says "Well, YOU JUST BLEW IT!!" -- which she SURELY will -- you say "I understand that you're angry. I'd be angry too.")
