Dance,

In this case the basement is not a direct affront, or giving the wife the finger "I'm moving to the basement". Rightly or wrongly, the whole snoring thing is a nice excuse to reduce my frustration. Again, why sleep next to somebody that you don't have sex with?

Who knows, maybe she will have an epiphany here, but that remains highly unlikely until our financial situation improves. Even then, who knows. Litterally, counseling would be a choice between groceries and that, so we can't go anyway.

NTE