Fixing things is what they do...it's a test, a challenge, a competition with other guys and the world. It's part of their nature.
Lol...that is SO TRUE in H's case. He is a fixer. If you can't fix it, f*ck it. His family are also masters of "if we ignore it, it doesn't exist" classic example of the elephant in the middle of the room.
Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
It is perfectly okay to hope that one day, in the future sometime, he comes to his senses and cleans up his act. Just keep no expectations, keep the detachment, don't let his drama and problems affect you.
This is the hardest thing for me. How strange it is that the whole pregnancy thing isn't really what bothers me right now. I mean it bothers me, but I also realize that there is just nothing to do about it but wait. The gambling thing really is the one problem that I let get to me everytime. That is where I have the hardest time detaching. Thursday is the day the ultrasound will be done. So am I just strange for knowing so much about this?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
