Your not kidding. You know, the thing that amazes me is even when I was out of work, on unemployment, I still managed to get my portion of the bills paid. He was the one who got behind. Mr. Oh I have perfect credit and don't want to ever screw it up.
They spend and spend, and when the time comes, its our fault because they felt the need to spend. What, having a bad day??? GO SHOPPING!!!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
They spend and spend, and when the time comes, its our fault because they felt the need to spend. What, having a bad day??? GO SHOPPING!!!!!
I know that's part of the whole depression thing for W. After this latest crap, I'm glad she's having to face reality this way. As long as we stayed together, she could always blame me for not making enough money. Who can she blame now?
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I'm in some really important meetings today. Right in the middle, I get this:
"H, I need $500, can you help? I am continuing to look for jobs that I can do with these stupid migraines. I had an interview last night, but it sounded skeezy."
"This would be the last thing I ask of you. I promise."
I responded quickly that I'm in a meeting.
W: "Yes or no, that's all I need"
My gut reaction is a no. I've already helped her a ton, only to get more blame and anger. I don't think she'll be able to get a job, and I don't want her getting one in Houston anyway. I want her back here in Dallas.
There are some things I could move around though. I can't believe she can treat me like she did on Sunday night, then ask this. This is NOT what I need today.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Jon, don't do it. It is okay, and your right, to just say no.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Okay I am not trying to be mean, but I have one more question.
She is living with her parents correct?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Okay, I see it this way. She is living free with her parents, and you still have bills to pay. I understand she needs money, but it ceased to be "community paycheck" when she left.
That being said, you have given her money, and need to tell her (gently) that you are not a bank. You still have expenses as well. It would be one thing if you were independently wealthy, but your not. It's got to give.
(((Jon)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
