I'll do my best to pick you up. I think I've learned that even the walk away/wayward most times can't tell you "why" because they probably don't know themselves.

I think you should go re-read what you quoted from the other thread. I know I've read it a number of times and it helps me see that this is not about me in anyway, but about the screwed up life they are living. And as bad as we want to, we can't change them or get them to see what a mistake they're making. They have to come to that conclusion themselves. The sad part is, a lot of times when they come to the realization that they F'd up, the LBS no longer cares.....

Keep your chin up. It will get better, one way or another. I'm thinking about you.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.