Bring on the Rain - Part 3

[SueS]

D4 wanted to call H last night when I told her that he was going out with friends. She talked to him & then put me on the phone. Not much was said. I expected him to be home late last night, but he got home around 9:30. He'd forgotten his phone at home. He's done that twice now in the last week. He must not have told OW that he left his phone at home. She called. The temptation was there to answer his phone, but really, what would I have said and what good would it have done me? Boy though, that would really have given her a shock! Could have been fun for me! H checked his phone when he got home & then jumped on the pc right away.

This morning H emailed me. His email said.
"I see you've taken off the shackles. Gotten any fish to bite yet?" Then he asked me again if I wanted him to try to get the deposit back to our place without having to wait 21 days. I called him. He claimed he was joking about the shackles. I'm not sure if it actually took him 3 months to notice that I'm not wearing my wedding ring or if it took him that long to figure out what to say. He went off again about the deposit. Then he told me that he was just trying to help me out, as it's my money. If I want to wait 21 days and then track our landlord down for it, that's my choice. Then he told me that he only trusts 2 people in this world and the landlord's not one of them. I didn't ask who the 2 were.

Thankfully it's been a busy, busy day at work. I hadn't been thinking about my sitch until H's email came in.

My parents are coming to town this weekend. Long ago I had suggested that H and I try a Polish restaurant in town. He's Polish. He said that if my folks take D4, maybe we can try that restaurant. It's so odd this world he's living in. My gut is telling me that he's slowly pulling away from OW because he knows he could never handle her kids. Also, he was on the phone last night with his brother. All they talked about was looking into possibly going to Vegas in July and KS/MO in August for concerts. It's a possibility that he realizes how a life with OW could actually disrupt a life of going out and doing whatever he wants, whenever he wants. But, as Rob said....who cares. I have to do for me and D4. We have to be 1st in my life right now.

SueS