You know, from what I can gather from the evidence I do see, and hear, she doesn't laugh a lot. I know the older kids don' think so, from stuff they've said. She will sometimes laugh at TV, or a movie, but not really a lot. She's a pretty serious person.
One thing that is really true about her is that she doesn't compartmentalize at all. So, if she is unhapyy with one part of her life, she seems to be unhappy with it all. At least it feels that way. So, if the sink isn't clean, nothing is funny.
I don't know how I can use my good traits to my benefit. The traits that she doesn't seem to think of as good seem to cancel them out!