Mini hi-jack to root, but I hope useful to all of us...
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I'm not saying to be a doormat, I'm just saying be emotionally detached so you can look at a situation logically and respond diplomatically.
But what if you have been somewhat of a doormat over the years? I held my temper, but it wasn't always out of dignity; it was also at times when i should have spoken up, held my ground...that's more what i meant.
But maybe that's what appropriate boundaries are about...maybe part of that 180 would be knowing how to frame it...
