Hi Ingrid,

You have an excellent point. I'm right in the middle of my cycle. When I first typed my post this morning, I started to write that my hormones were to blame, but I deleted that part.

How do you stick with your decision to not start any discussions at that time? I've improved, but sometimes I find it hard to stop myself from opening my big mouth.

It's been awhile since I read some of my old posts. I agree that it can be helpful in gauging how much things have changed. Posting positives is also helpful-but at times I can't see the positive with all of the negatives blocking the view.

Thanks again.


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08