I'm hoping your week will go better starting today. How was class? I'm sure you need a few hours to recoup from all of that intensive training.
I read Happy1's suggestions. Part of me agrees with what Happy1 recommends, but the other part of me rebels. I would lean more to trying the suggestions of acting as if and meeting H's needs. Since this is a different approach than you would normally take, maybe the results would be more apparent.
Sage, why do we have to forget about the OW in our H's lives? Were you insecure in your H's love before OW? Or did the insecurity start after? I think this is key to how you approach handling the insecurity.
Question for Happy1. Why is the OW or insecurity 'Sage's" issue only? My H said something similar to me a while back. That I needed to deal with my insecurity regarding OW's. I don't understand. H said that, he came home every night, his paycheck went into the joint acct, he paid the bills and I should be concerned about making him "want" to come home. Is this a gender difference? Thanks.
Sage, I'm thinking of you today. I hope your PMA stays upbeat and you try the new technique.
