Hey Cat Well then whats the new 48?? cause I dont like that age much anymore lol of course if I wait till Aug. It will change! lol
Not bad uh Ellie, I must say ex does take it in stride, hes never taken things personal,,maybe he should a little tho LOL
Well Fig I am glad Ellie could tell you where Helendale is, cause I didnt know- but boy she is right, I dont think anyone choses to live in Barstow, oh no no no, If your gonna make the move, Coast all the way, or at least a 30 min drive.
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Not me. I don't like anything over 85 degrees (we pile humidity on top of that). I don't like to sweat unless I'm exercising. Plus I don't like frizzy hair or melting makeup........
Opps ,well not YOU Trip, but the others, besides it was Bethie who called you a Hick, I think you should set her straight!!!!
Felt humidity in Boston once, omg! not fun. Now I know what people mean by " its a dry heat"
Went out to dinner w/ the gals last night. Feel bad for my friend C, shes been married 30 some years ( married very young, like 16) For the last at least 10 yrs shes not been happy, her H is a nice guy, wayyyyy quiet more so then my ex! but he is emotionally absent, I mean really absent. She really is trying, and a few months back , they turned a corner! Was so happy for her, she heard something on the radio, and she changed her ways and in turn his changed, no more cheeseless tunnels
Well, hes started to drift back into old ways again. Shes just at witts end and I know when she hears about B and I and she listens to our friend J , who is very happily married 40 yrs, she gets a little envious and wonders ,,,,what if.... I personally think that he needs to miss her! I know, prob not what most would say, but a little distance may open his eyes. I h ave heard her cry about this for 4 yrs now and I dont see it getting better. I feel so bad for her. I see a lot of my ex in her H, with him just being blank, no emotion at all.
All I can do tho is be supportive. You have to wonder what happens to some couples, what happens that they lose that feeling they had when they first got together and is there any way to get it back once its gone?
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It's funny how much it sucks for us to see our friends go through what we have gone through.
On the other side of it, I know a couple where she was with him forever but decided to leave because she just couldn't take another day of her H being inattentive and not supportive. I am sure he would be here if he knew about this site but from what she has said I can empathize. This is a man that never did anything for her. Never brought her flowers, never bought her a birthday gift or anniversary gift. She did everything with the kids and I mean everything form school to sports. She tried many, many times with him and upon turning 50 she decided that she just didn't want to live that way any longer.
wow Trip, sounds just like what my friend is saying!
Last week her mother had a stroke, luckily she has 5 siblings! and most were around, but shes closest, physically to her mom so its a lot on her and shes a spaz like me, so upset and nervous,,,well her H wasnt supportive a bit, she goes to the hospital, about 10 miles away every day, he never has gone, never asks about her. Hes ok w/ her mom staying w/ them but emotionally nada.
And sadly, she left Kohls same time as me and hasnt gone back to work, she dosnt really need to but likes to work just nothing has come along. He gives her an allowance, well w/ gas prices and the drive 20 mile round trip, she asked if he would fill her car up, he said no, she should of been working these past 6 months. OUCH! this is a man who is suppose to be her partner! and shes not asking for gas to cruise for guys! lol its to see her mom in the hospital. Wow my ex wanst that mean! dont get people like that at all.
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