Hmmm, maybe we did cut her off, though I didn't think it felt that way. It was before I bought the tickets, and I though I was clear that she was welcome. You know what? I think it isn't that she wanted to go, it's that she wanted to be asked! She would have said no, I think, but that isn't the point. But, what if I look at it this was, in this case... maybe she will think about why we didn't ask her? And realize that it might have something to do with her? Maybe she did feel rejected, I dunno.

Originally Posted By: AliSuddenly
Also, I was wondering why she checked her schedule and then changed her mind...were you thinking what I was thinking?(What OP may be working the same shift?)

The thought crossed my mind.