I agree, TwinDad, but I have a male friend (who is married, btw, and I love his W dearly) who gives great hugs. Of course, there is nothing of that nature between us either, and he does live in a different state. But sometimes, when I really need the male perspective, I call him because he is great to talk to.

I think as long as it doesn't get to a romantic level, leaning on an old friend is fine. But if you are feeling an attraction and you still want to work on the M, then you do need to leave it alone.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..