I have to reiterate some of the caution with leaning on an old friend of the other sex. It is a very slippery slope! and it is easily defensible in ones own eyes until one day where you realize you have developed feelings. Take it from me.....I fell into this trap about 5 years ago when I was being severely neglected by my W. Your sould will crave this attnetion like a drug and nature takes care of the rest. You may not get involved physically but the emotional bond can be extremely strong. I would suggest against it if you are still fighting for your M. It will only be a deterent in the future during the rebuilding process and WILL affect your feelings toward your H.
On a lighter note, have you had any luck in getting H to come over and help out with the house?
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
